The Precepts
Directing the mind towards practices in diversity
Larry Yang, LCSW
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Aware of the suffering caused by imposing one's own opinions or
cultural beliefs upon another human being, I undertake the training to
refrain from forcing others, in any way through authority, threat,
financial incentive, or education to adopt my own belief system. I
commit to respecting every human being's right to be different, while
working towards the elimination of suffering of all beings.
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Aware of the suffering caused by invalidating or denying another
person's experience, I undertake the training to refrain from making
assumptions, or judging harshly any beliefs and attitudes that are
different from my own or not understandable to me. I commit to being
open-minded towards other points of view, and I commit to meeting each
perceived difference in another person with the willingness to learn
more about their world view and individual circumstances.
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Aware of the suffering caused by the violence of treating someone as
inferior or superior to one's own self, I undertake the training to
refrain from diminishing or idealizing the worth, integrity, and
happiness of any human being. Recognizing that my true nature is not
separate from others, I commit to treating each person that comes into
my consciousness, with the same loving kindness, care, and equanimity
that I would bestow upon a beloved benefactor or dear friend.
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Aware of the suffering caused by intentional and unintentional acts
of rejection, exclusion, avoidance, or indifference towards people who
are culturally, physically, sexually, or economically different from me,
I undertake the training to refrain from isolating myself to people of
similar backgrounds as myself and from being only with people who make
me feel comfortable. I commit to searching out ways to diversify my
relationships and to increase my sensitivity towards people of different
cultures, ethnicities, sexual orientations, ages, physical abilities,
genders, and economic means.
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Aware of the suffering caused by the often unseen nature of
privilege, and the ability of privilege to benefit a select population
over others, I undertake the training to refrain from exploiting any
person or group, including economically, sexually, intellectually, or
culturally. I commit to examine with wisdom and clear comprehension the
ways that I have privilege in order to determine skillful ways of using
privilege for the benefit of all beings, and I commit to the practice of
generosity in all aspects of my life and towards all human beings,
regardless of cultural, ethnic, racial, sexual, age, physical or
economic differences.
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Aware of the suffering caused to myself and others by fear and anger
during conflict or disagreement, I undertake the training to refrain
from reacting defensively, using harmful speech because I feel injured,
or using language or cognitive argument to justify my sense of
rightness. I commit to communicate and express myself mindfully,
speaking truthfully from my heart with patience and compassion. I commit
to practice genuine and deep listening to all sides of a dispute, and to
remain in contact with my highest intentions of recognizing Buddha
nature within all beings.
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Aware of the suffering caused by the ignorance of misinformation and the lack of information that aggravate fixed views, stereotypes, the stigmatizing of a human being as other and the marginalization of cultural groups, I undertake the training to educate myself about other cultural attitudes, world views, ethnic traditions, and life experiences outside of my own. I commit to be curious with humility and openness, to recognize with compassion the experience of suffering in all beings, and to practice sympathetic joy when encountering the many different cultural expressions of happiness and celebration around the world.
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Aware of the suffering caused by the cumulative harm that a
collective of people can impose on individuals and other groups, I
undertake the training to refrain from consciously validating or
participating in group processes, dynamics, activities, decisions, or
actions which perpetuate the suffering that these trainings describe on
a familial, social, institutional, governmental, societal, cultural, or
global level. I commit to exploring, examining and eliminating the ways
that I consciously and unconsciously ally myself with forces that cause
harm and oppression, and commit myself to working for the benefit and
peace of all beings, in all directions.
A version of these trainings is included in Friends on the Path: Living
in Community, by Thich Nhat Hanh, Parallax Press, 2002.
These trainings are viewed as a continual work in progress and given
freely to all communities to practice. Feel welcomed to modify the
trainings to suit your individual needs or those of your sangha. It is
hoped, regardless of how these trainings evolve, that our deepest mutual
intentions can be shared and help to move us toward freedom for all
beings.
Larry Yang, LCSW, is a clinical supervisor at San Francisco General
Hospital's outpatient psychotherapy clinic. He supervises and mentors
psychotherapists and is the coordinator of diversity and multicultural
services. Being a gay man of color who is training in the Theravadan
Buddhist tradition, he is on the Diversity Council of Spirit Rock
Meditation Center and is part of their Community Dharma Leaders and
Dedicated Practitioners Programs. Larry can be reached at
diversitydharmaaol.com
Oppression is a difficult concept to embrace, and it is a difficult
experience to explain. Oppression is an intense form of suffering that
often elicits seemingly immediate reactions from individuals whether they
are the targets of oppression or are the instigators of oppression. For
people who are directly wounded by the violence of racism, sexism,
homophobia, classism, or other forms of oppression, the pain may be
so great that it is difficult to examine on the moment-to-moment basis
that dharma practice asks of us. For people who perpetrate oppression
or who are not the direct targets of oppression, the pain may not
be acknowledged, seen, or even understood. And yet, it exists. And it
separates us from each other-in ways that harm the quality of life of all
beings. So, what to do? How do we consciously move towards the suffering,
from wherever we are at, with the awareness and intention and
compassion that the dharma has taught us?
The intention in developing these trainings is to break down the concept
and experience of oppression into some salient components. The invitation
offered is to begin by transforming a piece of oppression, rather than
being intimidated by the vastness of its suffering. Dharma practice is
often presented as an incremental and cumulative process. The practice
of diversity is also such a process. The hope is that this process can
invite us into taking these important steps to transforming in deep and
meaningful ways our experience with oppression.
The practice of these trainings is an opportunity to begin the
journey towards narrowing the experience of separation. As humans,
we all participate in the harmful behaviors that these trainings are
addressing. We all have been the perpetrator and victim, at one time or
another. These trainings are for all of us, not just for any particular
group or community. And in our conjoint practice are the vision, hope,
and possibility of both cultivating non-perpetration of oppression and
increasing compassion in how we live our lives and understand each other.
Thich Nhat Hanh's Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings of the Order of
Interbeing were an invaluable inspiration and nourishment of these
trainings in diversity. The first mind training in diversity is a
variation of Thich Nhat Hanh's Third Mindfulness Training in the Freedom
of Thought. Since culture and identity are often made up of beliefs
and views, this felt like the best place to begin the trainings. Thich
Nhat Hanh has written: "Many of today's problems did not exist at the
time of the Buddha. Therefore, we have to look deeply together in order
to develop the insights that will help us and our children find better
ways to live wholesome, happy, and healing lives." This encouragement
and suggestion for our dharma practice becomes especially important with
issues of diversity.
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